Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should talk what is good or keep quiet, and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (or insult) his neighbor..." Sahih Bukhari: Volume 8, Book 76, Number 482.
Backbiting and Gossiping are from the most vilest and despicable of things, yet the most widely spread amongst mankind, such that no one is free from it except for a few people."
Backbiting (gheebah) means mentioning something about a person (in his absence), that he hates (to have mentioned), whether it is about: His body, his religious characteristics, his worldly affairs, his self, his physical appearance, his character, his wealth, his child, his father, his wife, his manner of walking, his smile, it is the same whether you mention that about him with words, through writings, or whether you point or indicate him by gesturing with your eyes, hand or head.
As for the body, is when you make fun of how someone looks, or mentioning any bad quality in him, as saying: "he is blind", "he limps", "he is bleary-eyed", "he is bald", "he is short", "he is tall", "he is black", "he is yellow", "he's too thin", "he's too fat". As for his religious qualities, it is when you say: "he is a sinner", "he is a thief", "he is a betrayer", "he is an oppressor", "he doesn't pray", "he prays so fast", "he does not behave well towards his parents", "he does not pay the Zakat duly"." As for the worldly matters, then it is when you say: "he has poor manners", "he does not think that anyone has a right over him", "he talks too much" …etc
Ohh come on ladies, please, why isnt important for you to do something that could harm other people feelings. Think rationally, i dont like bother about people life, and there's a way for you to help your friends in order for them too changed. We live in this world too help each other in a good way, we should always remember that, we are not the right person too judge other human being, its in the hand of Allah swt. Maybe, they are wrong and lost, so you know what??? help them! talk to them, advise and educate, but dont ever you do something that at last cause you too lose your good deeds, and at the ends all the good deeds of you, falls into the hand of the one that you've been talking and gossiping behind.
Well friends, it happen a lot right?? Am i right?? i did this too, but i guess since ive already know, i should aware in being a judgmental person. I'm not a perfect person, but i'm trying too be a better person for my life and akhirat. Please take this serious, because of this a lot of woman falls their good deed into the hands of others.
Backbiting and Gossiping are from the most vilest and despicable of things, yet the most widely spread amongst mankind, such that no one is free from it except for a few people."
Backbiting (gheebah) means mentioning something about a person (in his absence), that he hates (to have mentioned), whether it is about: His body, his religious characteristics, his worldly affairs, his self, his physical appearance, his character, his wealth, his child, his father, his wife, his manner of walking, his smile, it is the same whether you mention that about him with words, through writings, or whether you point or indicate him by gesturing with your eyes, hand or head.
As for the body, is when you make fun of how someone looks, or mentioning any bad quality in him, as saying: "he is blind", "he limps", "he is bleary-eyed", "he is bald", "he is short", "he is tall", "he is black", "he is yellow", "he's too thin", "he's too fat". As for his religious qualities, it is when you say: "he is a sinner", "he is a thief", "he is a betrayer", "he is an oppressor", "he doesn't pray", "he prays so fast", "he does not behave well towards his parents", "he does not pay the Zakat duly"." As for the worldly matters, then it is when you say: "he has poor manners", "he does not think that anyone has a right over him", "he talks too much" …etc
Ladies just loves Gossiping! If its good then Alhamdulillah but if its bad??
Well friends, it happen a lot right?? Am i right?? i did this too, but i guess since ive already know, i should aware in being a judgmental person. I'm not a perfect person, but i'm trying too be a better person for my life and akhirat. Please take this serious, because of this a lot of woman falls their good deed into the hands of others.
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